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Some of Life’s Most Memorable Moments Aren’t Meant to be Photographed

Our lives are overflowing with memorable moments. Strung together, these moments serve as a legacy of sorts; a reminder that we were here – that we lived and loved and laughed out loud.

Photographing the memorable milestones and sweet, everyday moments that make up our lives allows us to reflect upon, celebrate and honor those memories. But some of life’s most memorable moments aren’t meant to be photographed.

The power and beauty of photographing life’s memorable moments

I am completely, uncontrollably and irrevocably obsessed with photography. Exposure. Composition. Challenging myself to find my camera’s sweet spot as I click-click-click away. It’s all so exciting, even more so when I manage to capture a great shot.

power of photography, photographing life's memorable moments

While nailing difficult shots makes me giddy inside, photographing the memorable moments we create as a family fills me with overwhelming joy.

There’s something so magical about looking at the ones you love through the lens of a camera; capturing those precious, fleeting moments and freezing them forever with just a click of a button. Time stands still, every emotion is amplified and the beauty of the moment becomes infinite. Never-ending.

power of photography, photographing life's memorable moments

Photographs have the power to pull you in and place you smack dab in the middle of the moment. The emotions that these images evoke and the feelings they convey can be incredibly overwhelming; from a hearty laugh between a father and son, to a heart-wrenching goodbye between a soldier and his little girl.

Memorable moments like these were meant to be photographed.

A memorable legacy

My passion for capturing the memorable moments in my life goes beyond my obsession with photography.

I’m determined to create more than just a legacy of love. I want to create a tangible reminder of the memories I’ve made and the moments I’ve shared with my children, for my children. I want so much for them to have something to look back on and to hold on to; a physical reminder of the memorable moments we created throughout our lives together. I want those memorable moments to live on, long after I’m gone.

So I click away, photographing the memorable moments in my life as they unfold.

Some of life’s most memorable moments aren’t meant to be photographed

But some of life’s most memorable moments aren’t meant to be photographed. They’re meant to be lived and enjoyed.

power of photography, photographing life's memorable momentsLike the beautiful moment I shared with my 2-year old daughter one afternoon while laughing and splashing along the edge of a rocky creek. I’ll never forget her squealing with delight as she threw rock after rock into the water; the chirping of birds and gurgling of the creek, sunlight filtering through the trees and resting ever so softly on her head – framing her in a halo of light. The world around us fell away and in that moment nothing else mattered.

My daughter may never be able to recall the beautiful memories we made that day and that’s more than alright with me.

Because some of life’s most memorable moments just aren’t meant to be photographed or left behind. They’re meant to be lived and enjoyed; the memory of it ever happening, nestled deep within the heart and whispered in the wind.

45 Responses to “Some of Life’s Most Memorable Moments Aren’t Meant to be Photographed”

IhilaniTwitter: sopupuka (17 comments)

So sweet and so true! Makes me feel not so bad about my camera battery being dead for the last week! It’s hard when we’re in the mindset of “I gotta blog this so I gotta take pictures of it”. I can’t tell you how many times Noweo was doing something cool and I scrambled to get the camera and totally missed it! Now I got nothing – no memory, no picture. Sometimes it’s best to just enjoy a moment and be ok with keeping it to yourself.
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KristiTwitter: TweetingMama (4351 comments)

Missing the photo op and the moment? How frustrating! You’re so right, though. Sometimes it’s best to just enjoy the moment while keeping it yourself. :) I’m so glad you stopped by, Ihilani. I enjoyed tweeting with you earlier tonight. :)




Erika @NaMammaSteTwitter: NAMAmmaSTE (2 comments)

That is one of the most beautiful posts I have EVER read. You are so right! Thank you for that wonderful reminder of how important it is fully embrace and absorb every.single.moment with our beautiful children!
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KristiTwitter: TweetingMama (4351 comments)

Aw, thank you so much. I’m so glad you this, Erika. I’m trying to make more of an effort to “fully embrace and absorb every single moment” with my children *without* picking up my camera. :)




SarahTwitter: naptimemomtog (117 comments)

Awesome water droplet shot. WOW! Awesome. Love these.




KristiTwitter: TweetingMama (4351 comments)

Well thankyouverymuch Miss Sarah naptimemomtog! ;)




I feel the same way. Sometimes I want to run for my camera b/c I want to remember that moment, but then I realize that in capturing the moment I miss experiencing it with them. Those moments that aren’t recorded are some of the loveliest of them all.
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KristiTwitter: TweetingMama (4351 comments)

Oh my goodness, you sound a lot like me – running for the camera, but wanting to experience the moment. You’re right though: “Those moments that aren’t recorded are some of the loveliest of them all.” Thanks so much for stopping by and taking the time to comment, Jenny. Have a great day. :)




HalieTwitter: iamdarkanjel (2 comments)

Thank you for this wonderful reminder. Sometimes it is much better to live life and enjoy some of the most precious moments it gives us




KristiTwitter: TweetingMama (4351 comments)

So, so true Halie. Thanks so much for stopping by. I hope you’re living out a few of those precious moments this weekend. :)




aliciaTwitter: projectalicia (231 comments)

Very sweet post, Kristi. It’s a hard balance for me personally to enjoy/capture the moment. I’ve been working on doing both. But I do agree that some moments don’t need to be photographed. They will forever live in our hearts…
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KristiTwitter: TweetingMama (4351 comments)

It’s hard to find that balance sometimes, isn’t it? You know, I had such a beautiful time down by the creek with her. I think it was one of the happiest moments of my life. I literally cried tears of joy on the way home. Hmm, maybe I’m PMS-ing. lol




TayarraTwitter: tsharp12 (73 comments)

Beautiful! That is an awesome shot of the water drop! I agree with you though, sometimes we have to step out from behind the camera and see beyond the frame.
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KristiTwitter: TweetingMama (4351 comments)

Well said: “Sometimes we have to step our from behind the camera and see beyond the frame.” Love it, Tayarra! Hope you’re having a great weekend. I’ve had you on my mind these past couple of days. :)




Katie @Pinke PostTwitter: katpinke (42 comments)

Oh this post really captivated me. I take pictures for similar reasons as you but in the end there are many that aren’t captured because exactly what you said. We are living out the moments. Fabulous blog post Kristi. Thank you for sharing!
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KristiTwitter: TweetingMama (4351 comments)

Aw, thank you so much. I’m trying to make more of an effort to put the camera down and “be” in the moment. Sounds like you’re already doing a great job of doing just that. Thanks for stopping by Katie.




veronica lee (52 comments)

How true! I couldn’t agree more!
Love that shot of the water drop.

Happy Sunday!
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the purple lady (2 comments)

I found your blog through blogfrog and really like what I see. I have been thinking about this exact issue for quite some time. Just because we can does not mean we need to capture every single moment in life on film or whatever people call it now.
I hope you might find my blog interesting as well…
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Sandra Tyler (1 comments)

I click the camera too often. Then I’m inundated with mostly bad pics to sift through. I sometimes think about going back to film, when you had to be much more picky about when you clicked. Otherwise, it really could be just a waste of film.




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Amanda Gordon (5 comments)

How True! Some of the moments of life are too pristine to be captured on lens. The beauty is that it is not even an event or a moment. It is as if suddenly you realise that the last few minutes were an act of grace that life has bestowed upon you.
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rosesdaughterTwitter: Rosesdaughter (20 comments)

I totally agree! I love photography! I love capturing a of those special moments, but some just need to be enjoyed, and captured in our memories instead.
HAPPY SITS DAY!
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JillTwitter: sublimelifeOG (5 comments)

I know what you mean! So much of the time when I am rolling around with my boys, or they lay on top of me, and I am up close and personal- face to face- with their breath-taking grins….. For a second all I can think is, “I wish I had my camera!” But it’s a fleeting second- before I am back to being fully immersed in the moment!
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Simone @Greatfun4kidsTwitter: greatfun4kids (3 comments)

I totally get this.
Sometimes I need to stop being the recorder of moments and just BE IN the moment.
Thanks for the reminder.
x
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Leslie (4 comments)

You certainly have taken some amazing photos. You’re right that the ones of family are the best, though sometimes the absolute best photos are those in your memory. Great post!
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Mz DolphinTwitter: lomiw (2 comments)

so sweet ~
I’m still in a process of learning photography. My brother is a wedding photog and he makes me wanna learn more about photography in depth, a very fun and interesting adventure for me
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Kristin (1 comments)

An absolutely lovely post and the perfect reminder to begin my day. Happy SITS day and so glad to have found your blog!
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Amy ~ Eat. Live. Laugh. Shop.Twitter: amyeatlivelaugh (29 comments)

Such a beautiful post! Happy SITS day. I hope you enjoy all the attention. You, and your photos, certainly deserve it!! xoxoxo
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Marie ColeTwitter: decondemand (5 comments)

Beautifully said…AND beautiful pictures too!
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SarahTwitter: sholland (1 comments)

So true! So often I feel myself getting all anxious “Get the camera! Capture this moment!” I forgot to actually ENJOY it.
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JoanneTwitter: SuburbanLifeJo (4 comments)

I agree. Sometimes you just wanna put down the camera and live the moment. I can’t tell you the little things I’ve missed fumbling with my camera. Sometimes it’s just best to put it down for awhile. Happy SITS day!
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Christa the BabbyMamaTwitter: Editorialicious (4 comments)

I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately – I get pretty excited trying to capture every moment because they’re gone so fast but because of that, I know I’ve missed being in the moment more than once!
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AmandaTwitter: lilahbility (19 comments)

So true!
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LindsayTwitter: thoughtsonstick (1 comments)

I’m very guilty of being the mom that never has the camera, or brings the camera only to get caught up and never use it. I fell like you are so right there are moments that are meant to be enjoyed and I do think that even thought there isn’t photographic record of it that we or our children will remember all or parts of those moments. Some of my best memories in childhood don’t come with photos. :)
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Mommy Crib NotesTwitter: kvalentini (2 comments)

I find that it’s impossible for me to capture most of those magical moments because I either have to choose to be a part of them or run to get the camera. I usually choose to stay in the moment. I wish I had a photographer though that followed us around and could capture those moments for me – like at my wedding – so I wouldn’t have to choose!
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Susan in the BooniesTwitter: BoonieSooze (1 comments)

Happy SITS day! Being in the moment is so important, isn’t it? And yet what can take us back to a timeless moment any faster than a fabulous photograph.

It’s a challenge!




Patricia (1 comments)

Your perspective, whether with your words or your photography, are sweet reminders to stay present ~ in the moment. You capture the beauty of life with such grace. Thank you.




Through the Lens of Kimberly Gauthier, Photography BlogTwitter: kg_photography (15 comments)

I absolutely love this post. I don’t have children, just dogs and cats. But my boyfriend and I took a trip recently with our dogs and we had such a great time. The other day I sat watching my boyfriend share stories about our vacation with someone and it was fantastic to see the joy, because we had an amazing time.
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Heather (1 comments)

So true! Sometimes we have to set the camera down and live life instead of trying to capture it all.
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Maggie TerrynTwitter: momglasses (1 comments)

Heading over from SITS…..and I love your photography. I also just read your post on your grandpa and it was amazing. I love a great legacy and it sounds like he left one.




The Lucky Wife (1 comments)

So true! There always seem to be moments, though, when I really wish I had my camera to capture something…

Hope you’ve had a wonderful SITS day!!
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This is so lovely. And you’re right, so much better to live than moment than try to capture it. Happy SITS day!

Maria xx
http://www.cheekypinktulip.blogspot.com
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My Traveling Troop (1 comments)

Discovered your blog through SITS….

How true that some moments are not meant to be photographed! Since becoming a mom, I’ve wanted to document each and every “special” moment. But at some point I realized that I’m actually missing or interrupting some of them because I want to take a photo. So, I strive for a more balanced approach now.

Cheers,
Kristina




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