Twelve Steps to Twelve Months of Breastfeeding Success

When I became pregnant with my daughter over a year ago, the decision to breastfeed her was an easy one. After three unsuccessful attempts to exclusively nurse my older children, I was determined to successfully breastfeed my little girl for at least one year!

With the celebration of my daughter’s first birthday a few weeks ago, came the realization that I’d succeeded in accomplishing the breastfeeding goal I’d set for myself. I’m overwhelmed about having met such a huge milestone in my breastfeeding journey!

The road to breastfeeding success was rough at times. Growth spurts, teething, pinching and biting threatened to derail me from meeting my goal a few times. The following tips made the last twelve months of breastfeeding possible.

Twelve Steps to Twelve Months of Breastfeeding Success:

  1. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, proper latching technique is key. Ensuring that baby is latched on properly will save you a lot of pain!
  2. Holding techniques vary. Whether it’s the football hold or the cradle hold, don’t be afraid to experiment with different techniques. Find what works best for you and your child.
  3. Arm yourself with as much breastfeeding knowledge as possible. Educate yourself about the benefits of breastfeeding for both you and baby. The benefits are astounding and encouragement enough to give breastfeeding a valiant effort.
  4. Confidence is an important tool to have in your breastfeeding arsenal. Whether it’s confidence in your ability to provide the nourishment that your child needs or the confidence to nurse in public with or without a cover, the fact of the matter is you. can. do. it.
  5. Be sure to eat a well-balanced meal to keep your milk production and energy level up. Now is not the time to go on a diet!
  6. It seems getting lots of rest these days is easier said than done, but make no mistake…you need all the rest you can get. Those first few weeks can be physically and emotionally taxing on a nursing mother, as are growth spurts. Conserve your energy and sanity by getting lots of rest.
  7. Suffering from a twelve hour bout of the stomach flu taught me one thing – having expressed breast milk on hand is important during emergencies. Had I religiously expressed my milk, I wouldn’t have had to sit on a toilet for hours while breastfeeding my infant. Folks, it was not a pretty sight.
  8. Enlist the help of your spouse and family members. My husband and older children have played an important role in my breastfeeding success. Having the extra help with household chores was a lifesaver. My time and energy were best spent focusing on my daughter, not the massive pile of laundry with my name on it.
  9. Prepare yourself for the bumps along the road. Breastfeeding is tough. It’s hard work and it’s not always fun, however the rough patches are temporary and brighter days are ahead!
  10. Find your tribe. Having a support system of breastfeeding mothers has been amazing. The support and encouragement I’ve received from my tribe of breastfeeding mamas on Twitter has been overwhelming. My fabulous support system of breastfeeding mamas has been such an influential part of my breastfeeding success.
  11. Seek the help of an IBCLC (International Board Certified Lactation Consultant). These awesome women are in the business of breastfeeding and are a wealth of knowledge!
  12. Remember that you’re not alone in this breastfeeding relationship. Your little one is new to this too. Be patient and commit to learning and growing together. You’re a team!

While these tips are not a substitute for medical advice, I do hope you find them helpful. For breastfeeding tips galore, visit La Leche League or kellymom.

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19 Responses to “Twelve Steps to Twelve Months of Breastfeeding Success”

Maya (139 comments) twitter: @MarfMom

WAY TO GO!!! Also, great article! :-)
.-= Maya´s last blog ..Marfan Monday =-.




Kristi (3460 comments) twitter: @TweetingMama

@Maya,
Thanks Maya! I really enjoyed today’s blog post. I’m so happy for you on the upcoming birth of your second child. No one should ever have to justify their decision to have a child, Marfan or not. Thanks for stopping by. See you tomorrow for Wordless Wednesday! Have a great day.

Kristi, Live and Love…Out Loud
@TweetingMama




Haven (1 comments)

Great post! I’m almost to 11 months of breastfeeding. Between my sheer stubbornness and the wonderful support of the mamas I’ve met on Twitter, I feel Luke I can keep going as long as Oliver wants!
.-= Haven´s last blog ..Testing, testing, 1 2 3? =-.




preemiebirdsmom (2 comments) twitter: @preemiebirdsmom

this is a fabulous article! you can bet i’ll be referring my readers to it!




Kristi (3460 comments) twitter: @TweetingMama

@preemiebirdsmom,
Thank you so much for stopping by and commenting. I’m glad you liked the article. I loved your Not Me! Monday post. I’m definitely NOT guilty of doing the same things in your post. Nope, NOT me! Thanks again. Have a great day!

Kristi, Live and Love…Out Loud
@TweetingMama




charla (2 comments) twitter: @preemiebirdsmom

this is GREAT! i’ll definitely be referring my readers to your 12 step program!




Congrats on another great post & on breastfeeding for a year!

Suggestion #7-making sure you have expressed breast milk on hand is a good suggestion. Moms wouldn’t often think of that particular reason to have breastmilk on hand. With that being said we know that if mom is ill she should be encouraged to continue to breastfeed because she will pass important antibodies onto her baby to prevent or lessen the impact of that particular illness. As well it is important to maintain demand/supply during an illness so supply doesn’t go down as a result or mom gets another problem like plugged ducts or mastitis because baby is not going to the breast to nurse. My suggestion as an IBCLC is during illness is have a family member bring baby to nurse whenever needed (just as you did).
Great post ;)

Camilla Aviss RN,BHSc(N),IBCLC
(multiplereason-twitter)




Kristi (3460 comments) twitter: @TweetingMama

@Camilla (multiplereason),
You’re absolutely right Camilla! Moms should definitely continue to breastfeed while sick in order to maintain their supply and also to pass those important antibodies on to baby. I failed to mention that. Thank you so much for the reminder!
I just remember being on the toilet with violent diarrhea (sorry…TMI) and my baby needing to be fed. With no expressed milk in the house, I had no choice but to feed baby while on the toilet.
Thanks so much for stopping by. I’ve already been to your blog. Your little one is adorable and those eyelashes! :)

Kristi, Live and Love…Out Loud
@TweetingMama




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kelly (@kblogger) (1 comments)

That’s wonderful for both of you that you made it to your goal; and for your older children to SEE you breastfeeding (and remember it) – what a great impression to give them.

Thank you for sharing what you’ve learned along the way.
Hooray for #10 – Support is SO important.

My nearly 3 year old is still nursing, and I nursed my first til she turned 4.
.-= kelly (@kblogger)´s last blog ..The Whys and Hows of A Vegetarian’s Journey =-.




Kristi (3460 comments) twitter: @TweetingMama

@kelly (@kblogger),
Thank you so much for stopping by Kelly! I’m glad you liked number 10 because you happen to be one of the fabulous breastfeeding mamas I look to for support. Thanks for all you do to encourage breastfeeding women! You’re my breastfeeding superhero for nursing your little ones for as long as you have. It’s definitely a goal of mine. Thanks again for stopping by. Have a great day!

Kristi, Live and Love…Out Loud
@TweetingMama




TheFeministBreeder (1 comments)

I breastfed my second, but not my first (well, I quit after 4 weeks with him, which doesn’t really count to me.) With my second, the thing that made it work was sheer determination. I had to tell myself that formula was absolutely NOT an option, and I’d do whatever it took to make sure we never had to use it. I removed all the free samples they sent us from the house, and simply told myself it had to work. When I got down, I blogged about it, and all my amazing friends came to the rescue with advice and tips and LOTS of supportive encouragement. My husband also played an integral role – he did everything for me that he could, including make sure my pump parts were clean and ready for me every single day that I had to go pump at work. He made the pumping part HIS job. It really was a sanity saver.

And here we are – nearly 2 years later – still nursing. :)
.-= TheFeministBreeder´s last blog ..Saying Goodbye to the Bink =-.




Kristi (3460 comments) twitter: @TweetingMama

@TheFeministBreeder,
You know, I quit after six weeks with my first three children! I think it’s great you were determined to make it work the second time around. I love that you use that same determination, passion and drive to fight for feminine causes like access to VBACs and breastfeeding. Way to go mama! Thanks so much for stopping by. I really appreciate it!

Kristi, Live and Love…Out Loud




kia (3 comments) twitter: @bodhi_bear

Congrats on hitting your milestone! Also, thank you for the tips from your year. I will be prepping for my first go at breastfeeding in a couple of months. This is gonna sound silly but I had not even considered #7. Wow, that is commitment, but you have to do what you have to do.
.-= kia´s last blog ..mamavation monday 19 apr 10 =-.




Kristi (3460 comments) twitter: @TweetingMama

@kia,
You’re among my favorite Twitter mamas who happen to be pregnant at the moment. How exciting! I’m sure you’ll do great when it comes to breastfeeding. Know that if you have any setbacks, questions or need support, your Twitter community will kick into full gear! Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting on my breastfeeding post.

Kristi, Live and Love…Out Loud
@TweetingMama




Amy (@HappyMomAmy) (1 comments)

I just posted a link to this on the Best for Babes facebook page – it’s a great post! Thanks for running our ad, too – we appreciate your support! =) If you’d like to see your link, we’re at http://www.facebook.com/bestforbabes ;D




Kristi (3460 comments) twitter: @TweetingMama

@Amy (@HappyMomAmy),
Thank you so much for stopping by Amy! I’ve got to tell you that Best for Babes has played a huge part in my breastfeeding success. BFB is part of my breastfeeding tribe-a group of breastfeeding women I can depend on for support and encouragement. Thanks for all you do to support and encourage women in their breastfeeding journey and to help eliminate those boobytraps!

Kristi, Live and Love…Out Loud
@TweetingMama




Anna (1 comments)

Hi there! Great article! I nursed my daughter for 15 months and I would have to say that my advice is just to never give up! There may be bumps in the road, but if you’re determined to give your child the best, there are many things you can do (and help that you can get) to have a successful nursing relationship! Hang in there!




Lamb (3 comments) twitter: @LambAround

Congrats! Will we be seeing a 12 step guide to how to stop breastfeeding in the near future? I could use it at work (pediatric dental office)(incidentally, did you know it’s time for your daughters 1st dentist visit, if she hasn’t already been?)

:)
.-= Lamb´s last blog ..Woot, Woot! Party at the 2010 HGTV Green Home! =-.




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